Seventeen years ago, we moved into our New Hampshire home. Nestled against the back stone wall was a black walnut tree, a quiet, unassuming presence that had been there long before us. Its sparse branches gave it a sculptural beauty, and though it wasn’t the healthiest tree, it thrived in its own way, offering a perch for birds and a playground for squirrels.
We lovingly dubbed it the “self-trimming tree” as branches would drop off over the years, leaving it ever more weathered, yet still standing. It was my daily reminder of resilience, persistence, and the quiet elegance that comes with imperfection.
But time, as it does, wore on.
What followed surprised me—and opened up something tender and true.
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